Sunday, October 28, 2007

PRAWN FISHING!

YEAH! another outing with bh, cl, yy, ss n sq. Not bad sia this time the attendence is 6/8 partially cos last week we all decided on this date to go prawn fishing... so me, cl, yy n ss met at marina bay mrt before taking a bus to the "pond". waited awhile for bh n sq to drive over... haha bh now become sq's driver le... hahaha =X so the 6 of us shared 3 rods for 2 1/2 hrs... for the 1st hr we tried to catch those prawns resting on the side of the wall in the pond... that turned out to be an unwise decision and cl caught 2 prawns the normal way... haha then it rained and we asked the uncle to let us resume after the rain stopped... so then we drove to marina south pier and waited there till the rain stopped. once it stopped, we went back to fish and i tried the normal way... holy shit! i caught 1 almost immediately la! hahaha super big somemore! hahaha then came the 2nd and the 3rd prawns... lol then cl caught his 3rd one too... then bh caught one king kong one cos its claws were way too big for him to move it about... lol then sq caught her 1st one and yy caught hers as well... left ss havent catch... hahaha then i caught my 4th together with sq's 2nd... copycat... lol den i caught my 5th one... which was much smaller than my previous few ones... then FINALLY ss caught her 1st one... lol just in time before we got chased away by the bangala worker... =X

After that we went to have bbq/steamboat AGAIN... walao... damn fattening sia... hahaha meat fest again... and then we bbq-ed the 13 prawns we caught! ahahahaha so big! but mostly was the shell so not that much meat inside... but still it was damn fresh... some were still alive la! hahaha anyways me n cl tried to look for the cockle bits that we used as bait but somehow cant find it inside the head... :P then sq had this one particular prawn which seemed diseased... had "caviar" on the shell... BLEAH! hahaha then she said something which is quite disgusting... we didnt wash the prawns... hahahaha cos after catching it, we step on it and pull off the hook, (one of them still has the hook on the mouth... :P) we put it inside the net and let them back into the water... hahaha gross but once u drank brunei's "milo river water" u can take anything le... hahaha well then suddenly we heard a "pop!" sound which i think it was an egg being left on the grill for too long... then the 2 couple started to make a scene... guess what happens next... sq being the kpo queen starts narrating whats going on between them... walao... super diao lor... -_-lll turns out the gal is drunk and from china and the fat bloke is some rich faggot... anyways its always photo taking time when sq is around... hahaha so bh went and man-handled some kid to help us to take a photo... the fella was trembling... all his shots were blurry... hahaha or maybe he wanked too much... as his mates were joking 叫你昨晚不要打太多 wahahaha! faggot... wank too much last nite till hand trembling... or maybe he see pretty gals den nervous... -_- hahaha but i think it was bh's approach... hahaha yup then after dinner bh drove us home and somehow we got stuck in marina for quite some time... lol lost... hahaha but still managed to get me home 1st... oh wells next month's outing should be canceled cos its pushed forward to this one... cos sq's having her exams next month and stuff... so i guess the next one will be xmas! wow... time does fly... its just like awhile back that we had the gift exchange session in bh's house last xmas... ~last xmas i gave you my heart~ hahaha

October 28, 2007
It's a good time to broaden your perspective a bit -- it's going to happen anyway, so you may as well make it happen yourself. There's always more than one side to any situation and you can take them all in.

There are many ways to connect with someone you want to build a relationship with. Most of your attention has probably gone into looking good and creating sparks ... but the truth is, there are many different routes that can provide a much deeper and more rewarding connection. Today, try to use humor, intellect or your political philosophy in a new way with this special person. These areas of your life could help everything come together in a more satisfying way.

Embrace your lot in life. You're in a great place right now, even though you can't appreciate it. Your goal's self-acceptance today. Don't get wrapped up in what you didn't do; focus on the decisions that propelled you forward.

October 29, 2007
It might feel as if everything is changing, but really it's just a few seemingly-solid aspects of your life that are shifting. You can handle change better than a lot of people, as long as you're not taken by surprise.

Your talkative tendencies will come in extremely handy today! Whether on the phone or face to face, you can make some amazing changes happen with just a few suggestions. Don't you dare screen any calls, or you could be sorry. Toss some well-timed flattery at a colleague, and you will be boosting your professional reputation tenfold. People are listening to you now more than ever ... do you have something meaningful to say? Work on your script on the off hours and get ready to chew the fat!

Your friends and family stick by you through thick and thin. They can't help it -- your warmth and kindness adhere them. Now someone needs love and support in return. You can't wait to give it back.

October 30, 2007
Today is perfect for romance. If you're seeing someone or have been involved for a long time, make sure you let them know how you feel. If you're single, you may meet someone intriguing late in the day.

Your energy needs some stimulation today, but not the physical or emotional kind. To feed your mind, seek out some delicious intellectual stimulation. Controversial ideas and unusual perspectives will force you to think about things in a new way. Put yourself in the middle of a new crowd, where you hold the minority opinion. Listen to uncomfortable ideas. You don't have to adopt them, but you need to respect them. Be open to changing your mind once in a while.

Keep the inner turmoil tucked away today. If you let it spill out, you won't like the consequences. Some nearby sneaks are waiting for exposure. Don't let them see you sweat; even if you don't feel confident, fake it.

10/29/2007 - 11/04/2007
It might seem like opposite day on Monday, with people saying the reverse of what they mean, left looking like right and up seeming down. Hold on, because the next couple of days, while also mysterious, make sense to you in odd ways. Unmask somebody -- or let your real self be revealed! You might be taken as overbearing at the end of the workweek, even if you're just telling it like it is. Think about the delivery as well as the message. This weekend, feel free to speak off the cuff, act impulsively and have a terrific time.

It's 'handle with care' time on Monday -- love's a little tricky, and you need some TLC. But Tuesday and Wednesday look fabulous for romantic matters, and you look fabulous, too! You have a way with words that's especially suited to online flirtation or other electronic types of reaching out. At the end of the workweek, be careful of the intersection of love and work, even if you're simply getting too involved in a coworker's love drama. When the weekend comes, putting someone else first is especially important. Your love karma's looking great!

November
On the 1st and 2nd, some of the people around you are going to try to involve you (or overinvolve you) in their dramas. Don't let them. After all, their dramas are not your problem, and if you let them distract you, you're only doing yourself a disservice. Stay focused on what you need. You've spent enough time frittering away your energies trying to help other people out of dilemmas they actually enjoyed being part of. If you have any doubts about whether or not to leave people to work out their own problems, ask yourself: When was the last time any of these drama queens stepped in to help you? By the 6th and 7th, your new 'take responsibility for yourself' attitude could lead to some problems arising in some slightly codependent relationships. Don't try to fix everything. On the 13th and 14th, a real friend helps you out. On the 19th, you're feeling freer and stronger than you have in a very long time. This is fantastic. By the 24th and 25th, if you're tired, cancel any unnecessary plans and turn in early. You need to conserve your energy! On the 30th, you're ready to wrap up the month in 'critical' mode: Which of these relationships enrich your life? And which are just a drain?

On the 1st and 2nd, the best way for you to improve your romantic life is to really focus on your health. After all, if your joints are achy and your back is stiff and you're out of shape, do you really think you can give your all to a relationship? Of course not -- which is why you need to take steps now to turn things around. On the 3rd and 4th, you're thinking a lot about relationships. As long as you're on the treadmill (or jogging on the track) while you're doing that thinking, that's a good thing. Swimming can also be a great way to reflect on things. On the 9th, be careful: Somebody could lay a teeny-tiny emotional trap for you. But if you're strong and stand up straight you won't walk into it! On the 13th and 14th, somebody in a position of authority could discretely set you up on a date. What could be better? By the 19th it looks like that date went swimmingly (and aren't you glad you're in shape?). On the 23rd, there's a lot of romance in the cards for you. But don't give up on your workout now that love is in sight! On the 28th and 29th, end the month with some really good workouts. Afterward, you can reward yourself -- say, with a nice, long kiss!

Sunday, October 21, 2007

PARTY WEEK!

YEAH! so this week was super happening... tuesday went to jurong point to watch balls of fury with marc and yong tai... hahaha omg super funny and maggie q is sooo damn chio! she zao keng oso... woots! hahaha

yup then thursday the whole company went to a bar and drink to celebrate JT leaving for brunei... man such a waste... always will make fun of him being a komodo dragon whipper... lol now got new title le wor... Jason of Brunei... walao... sounds so garang... lol yup i didnt drink much cos jimmy drove me home to pick up my psp and we went lan gaming there man... MONSTER HUNTER!!! hahahaha power la... anyways learnt something new... playing pool with a glass of cocktail in the middle... whoever touches the glass will drink and whoever fouls drinks and whoever loses the match drinks... and loser stay on the table... lol mok drink till siao sia... lol

yup then sat me, sq n bh went to watch resident evil... man... milla's complexion is like FLAWLESS! gosh... so wax-figurine like... quoted from sq... lol and ali is hot in her redhead man... hahaha and the other girl... also quite chio... forgot her name... but ok la the show... should have RE4 ba... stupid lor...its always abt some super boss zombie appearing... so typical le... oh wells then we went to have steamboat at bugis again... along the way we played with sq's camera cos she got some project that needed some special effects to be done... nomatter how we tried, it didnt come out right... guess her cam cant support this kinda function... yup then we queued for quite abit before getting a seat... then yy n cl came... woots! meat fest! hahaha eat so much sia... friggin full... getting friggin fat le... over a month havent run lor... :S siao liao... yup then something struck me... the last time i ate here i tripped over a glass of water on the floor... supposedly an offering of some sort... and after which i had a string of bad luck which ultimately resulted in my psp getting lost... kns... think i need to go bai bai le... :S anyways, went to cineleisure and tried to get a room in E2max but all fully booked le... come xbox challenge going on... not enough controllers... haiz... so went to try for the $5 K box but the promotion ended le... so went to shoot some pool... walao super rusty le lor... esp on the 9 feet table... seems sooooo big! hahahaha long shots are really friggin long... yeah so after that we went for supper at the hong kong cafe and had mango ice, french toast, peanut butter toast and kolor pao... had quite alot of leftovers so we played the number game... we all gave a no from 0-5 and count till it stops at that person then he/she will eat the leftovers. hahaha ended up sq eating 1/4 of the pao and yy eating 1/2 of the pao, 1/4 of the french toast and 1/2 of the mango ice, and cl ate 1/2 of the peanut butter toast, 1/4 of the french toast and 1/2 of the mango ice... hahahaha guess where yy n cl were sitting... next to each other... LOL enough said... kns i laugh until full lor... hahaha so me n bh only stick out fingers only... lol yup then we discussed the next outing plans... go prawn fishing! woohoo! haha cl kena arrowed to organise... since this one was organised by me n sq which had an attendance of 5 out of 8... not bad la... hahaha hope the next one will be better... :P

sun went to sim lim with nelson to hunt for my logitec psp casing... walao... so many shops... so many ppl... asked siew rong where her lobang shop was... she also not sure... haha but got 2 types lor... 1 is quite clear its fake but at the same price i bought my old one... then theres a new one which costs much more but should be original ba... haiz... i must go check out more places other than sim lim... too much pirated stuff there le... yup then we walked to ps and met up with jz n jay to watch superbad... hahaha friggin funny sia! and damn lame... i almost felt at one point of the show it was like white castle... lol but that aside i really liked the actress who played becca... chio sia... damn she was gonna have sex but the guy was a SNAG so he wussed out... lol but it was quite a good show... worth watching with a group of guys... haha next show to watch: brothers! and next big event to go to: zouk halloween party! WOOHOO!!! hahaha who wanna go with me???

October 20, 2007

You need a reality check -- one that a friend is only too glad to provide. Try not to take it personally, because it's all for the best that you operate under the best possible set of information and guidelines.

If you think you can fake your way through an intimidating situation today, think again! You cannot bluff your way to the top right now, so don't even try. It's wisest if you just admit to any anxieties or insecurities you might have right up front, today. If you let everyone involved know that you're feeling like a fish out of water, they'll respect you for it. A key mark of your intellect is that you know when you don't know something -- and you're ready to admit it.

Try your hand at matchmaking today. Set yourself up with someone different and interesting. What initially seems like mixing oil and water is really fitting strengths with weaknesses. You won't know until you try.

October 21, 2007

You don't fear change quite as much as many people you know, but that doesn't mean it's always as fun as a trip to the circus. Today is a good time to remind yourself that change is an important part of life.

The company you keep says a lot about who you are -- and that fact is more important than ever before, now. New folks can be entertaining, but be sure you totally understand their motivations before inviting them into your inner circle. Trust is something to be earned, not given away freely. Resist the urge to abandon your standards in an attempt to fit into someone else's world. Your future is something only you can control, and it's a twenty-four hour a day job.

The advice you seek today may lie somewhere in the extremes. Problem is, this situation doesn't necessitate drastic measures. Find some balance in nature. Go for a walk in the park -- you'll find something inspiring.

October 22, 2007

Today is perfect for trying out new projects or new ways of approaching your old business. Your positive energy is perfect for making changes and growth should come much more easily to you.

Itchy fabrics, spicy foods, and atonal music -- any (or all) of these off-kilter experiences will be just the ticket for you today. What you need most is stimulation! Seek out things that rub you the wrong way and challenge your tolerance ... these will help reinforce what you're tuned into, and help you expand your horizons. In your free time, sit still and watch the world go by. The people you see will bring entertainment, confusion -- and more of that stimulation you need.

Everyone loves the new guy, but you're wholly unimpressed. Don't let popular opinion force you to into submission. You're entitled to your opinions so stick to them for now. Just remember: Nothing's set in stone.

10/22/2007 - 10/28/2007

Your generosity with affection and your honesty regarding emotions has enormous ripple effects as the week gets started. Dreams can come true now, perhaps in particularly unexpected ways! Life and love are a bit of a puzzle, though, around Wednesday and Thursday, and you might be missing a key piece. The person or occurrence you think has the answer probably doesn't. Look within, and get ready for things to make a lot more sense starting Friday. You can write your own ticket now. So where do you want to go?

As the week begins, your sex appeal's amped up in a way that's electric. Communicate, even via electronic means, and they'll love it. Around Wednesday, there's something or someone you need to figure out in the realm of romance. Things aren't what they seem, so proceed with caution. You can pretty much throw that caution to the wind starting sometime Thursday, when your energy rivals that super stuff you were strutting as the week started. For the next few days, work it! On Sunday, though, slow it way, way down.

Sunday, October 14, 2007

SOBX... MY PSP GOT STOLEN!

This week was shit... before booking into camp, my left eyelid was twitching all the way from home to camp... so i decided not to drive in. true enough, everyone was back in camp. but it still was twitching... so when i took over DO early from darryl cos mon he had to move off early... i checked it damn well to make sure everything was correct... still twitching... n true enough i had my PSP STOLEN from my own company mess! after checking what happened while i was not around, the 2 culprits were the 2 drivers who were not from our own company. but fuck i could only search them on tue when they came back from outfield. by that time too late le... gone le... fuck those 2 muds... i seriously hope they get what they deserve and its during their fasting month... better pray hard ur god dun bolt u down or some shit... cos i will... fucking asses... they are supposed to do good during this month... boy i hope they get punished for that if there really is a god... anyways, luckily this month's pay came in le... went to replace the one i lost but all the hours of game data inside was lost... together with my monster hunter 1 UMD disc... so fucking pissed and sad at the same time... but i managed to cheer up after a couple of days of brooding... mon esp was the worst... cos i was doing DO duty and searching for the PSP... i was so fustrated together with my men's morale being somewhat low... i gave them a wake-up talk and after that they all had a second opinion of me being the angel and chee han being the devil... somehow they were more scared of me now... haha yup so thanks to everyone who told me to 看得开... like bear, xiao xuan, andrea, soo chan and last but not least esther jie... thank you all... in my time of need at least i had some people to lean onto... and so i managed to get back on track and back to being close to what i was before the incident... haiz... anyways thurs night we had off so our company went to have a farewell party for JT of brunei... lol a new nickname given my my men... so we had buffet dinner at rendezveous hotel... wa eat until damn full sia... den went to some pub in chinatown and had drinks and played dice etc... haha damn fun... but not high lea... lol then went over to chee han's place to sleep over... gordon came along and we cheonged monster hunter 2 till 5am... LOL then the next day bear came over and cheonged from 11+ till 6pm before we went to IMM for dinner and then i went back to camp for my sat duty... which was like shit... cos my OC was the CDFO so he was in camp... fuck sia... i just stayed in the mess whole day and play psp, watch tv, read mags, slp, eat, order pizza etc... haha slack sia... just waiting for someone to say recall now! lol choi... sun morning handed over to choy and went to have breakfast with mom n dad... then went to watch lust caution with nelson n heman... walao... all the sex scenes all GONE! no tits whatsoever... sad... but the actress is quite chio... hope the uncut version will come out soon... hehex

October 14, 2007

It's one of those days when your mouth is working a whole lot faster than your brain -- so try to keep from getting yourself in any hot water, if possible. The good news is that lots of people aren't really listening.

The nicest things in life -- food, music, friendship, love -- take time. Today, keep in mind the fact that there's a direct correlation between the time you spend on a project and the quality of the outcome. If you want to rush through things, that's your choice to make. But you need to be aware that the consequences could include a shoddy result. Taking short cuts may give you more time, but will it give you more satisfaction?

You're dancing around an issue right now, hoping to make a point through smoke signals and hand gestures. Problem is, nobody's paying attention. Don't waiver -- be direct and communicate your intentions clearly. Too much is at stake to rely on hints.

October 15, 2007

You're not holding onto secrets all that well today, so make sure to avoid anyone who's got a surprise party coming up. For that matter, if you've got something to hide for a while, you may want to hide out!

You will be so deeply in synch with the people you are surrounded by, today, that you might think you can read each other's thoughts! Have some fun by finishing each other's sentences. This synergy will be an incredibly useful tool for keeping everyone in good spirits -- and headed in the right direction. It will also make the day go by much more quickly, so if you are having a wonderful time (and you probably will be), make sure you savor every minute of it!

As a self-destructive streak seeps into your life, everything seems unmanageable. It's time to unearth the emotional kernel of this strife before you do more damage. Don't be afraid to face reality -- it's not as scary as you think.

10/15/2007 - 10/21/2007

Work or a certain relationship might be a pain early this week, but complaining won't get you far. Bring a new idea or a proposed change of plan to the table, and make it a positive one. Around Wednesday, Thursday or Friday, you might just get hooked up with help from some unexpected places. Everything's interconnected, and your awareness of this means you'll see what others are missing. This weekend, the world of dreams is close by. Enjoy it and the creativity it brings, but don't lose track of reality, or even your keys!

Being nice or sweet isn't as important as doing the right thing when it comes to all matters love-related as the week begins. Are you ready to stick to your romantic guns? Do think your phrasing through, though. The question around Wednesday and Thursday is, who's playing Cupid? Getting everyone in on the act bodes well for love in general. Let it flow! Dreams are key this weekend, both the ones you hold in your heart and the visions you have in your mind, awake or asleep. Tune in and learn much, much more.

Sunday, October 07, 2007

DUTY FRENZY!

man... last week me, amanda, jasmine, yi qian and mel went to settlers to play some games... haha had quite a good time sia slapping each other's hands and screaming like a madman... lol haha lotsa fun there... yup then very fucked up news that my boss actually planned something without us knowing so fucked up had to book back to camp that night in a hurry... stupid la... offer 2 officers to do safety without telling us... fucked up work ethics... nowonder he's going to get posted out earlier than expected... HA! with that aside, i did chamber safety for mon and tue... damn sian... and overstaffed somemore... too many officers to do it lor... bad planning... always shoot me on this now shoot him back... MOFO... seriously fucked up... then tue night came back and cheong some monster hunter 2 with chee han till abt 2am... the next morning we had PT lesson for the new guys... haha shagged sia... thurs also... achin now... lol was supposed to apply for wed half day to go back sp n visit... but just to take a fucking half day off he had to come up with a fucking long cock story... and never say if can go or not... might as well just cut to the point and say a straight NO... moron... what to do... serving under a fucked up boss is like that... suck thumb lor... just be happy while i can... lol we just cheong monster hunter like siao... me, ch, bear, gordon and siew rong... haha all cheong! hahaha though my character abit more powerful than the rest... but im still HR1!!! NOT FAIR! blast it... i can even take out the urgent quest myself lor... haha then fri i took over mok's duty cos he's deployed outfield... sian sia... last week oso take for mok on fri... so this is the 2nd fri i take for mok le... somemore i this month doing 4 duty...the 2nd one being tmr... lol nvm lo clock 5 pts sia! hahaha next month dun need to do lo! wahaha! yup so fri my left eyelid was twiching all morning... same like last fri which ended up having an external audit coming down to do a spot check... this time it was SMA who came down... walao... stunned sia... me n siew rong on high alert... lol but i think it was to check somewhere else... haha so we cheong monster hunter till abt 2am... shagged sia... sat went to watch shoot em up with jay, jz n heman... lame show sia... haha dun watch...

October 07, 2007

Don't be too surprised if people you meet today turn out a little differently than they seem at first. It's not that you're crazy, it's just that your own mood colors your impressions much more than usual.

There won't be one single overriding goal that you have to accomplish today. Instead, you will be dealing with many different smaller projects, none of which are on a dramatic deadline. So don't focus on completion or meeting a particular target. Instead, make like a circus clown, juggling as many tasks as you can with a sense of humor. This work lull is also a good opportunity to get back to basics with your friends.

The ideas flow like water right now, but the words are stuck somewhere below. You're struggling to express your thoughts verbally, so write them down. The magic of pen to paper will reveal a whole new realm of possibilities.

October 08, 2007

If you're experiencing frustration with bureaucracy, or even within the family, take a time out and make sure that you're dealing with the right person. It could be that going over someone's head is just what's needed.

If you are involved in any type of legal matter, expect things to move to the next stage at some point today. Are you prepared? Get your paperwork in order and be the one to react first. You need to stay on top of all details right now, and take nothing for granted. Avoid any grey areas. Your life is all about black and white facts right now. As you move deeper into this analytical phase, you will be able to get more focused and reduce the drama in your personal life.

You've assigned the star role to someone in your life. In reality though, this person's merely part of the chorus. As long as you continue to focus on him or her, you're missing out on perfectly solid possibilities. Reassess your priorities.

10/01/2007 - 10/07/2007

You're much more likely to give an indirect answer than a simple yes or no as the week begins, and hey, it's your choice. Maybe you just need a little more time to think, because from sometime Tuesday through most of Thursday, you're ready for action. Romance can really heat up, and your greatness is appreciated in all areas of your life now. Take advantage of the energy to start something new. Another hint: Take particularly good care of your health from Friday through the weekend. It may be a bit delicate, so be smart and keep in balance.

The week starts out extra busy, so leave time in your schedule for exercise and rest -- it'll help with your emotional state (and your ongoing hot factor!). You'll want to be raring to go around Tuesday, Wednesday and Thursday, when the stars send super-romantic energy your way. Whether you're coupled up or on the prowl, others love you now. Bask in the attention, and return it as you choose (with your creative flair, naturally). From Friday through the weekend, though, you'll need to get realistic about an aspect of your love life. A smart, objective friend can help.

10/08/2007 - 10/14/2007

Your analytical powers are pretty awesome as the week gets going. If you can recognize when to go ahead and take action, you'll be sitting pretty indeed. Are you ready for some out-of-season spring cleaning around Wednesday and Thursday? Whether it's your workspace or your heart, there's stuff to toss out. Make room for the new! From Friday until Sunday afternoon, you might just want to cozy up with a certain someone or enjoy the company of good friends. Keep those plans low-key. Sunday could actually turn into your lucky day.

Passion and compassion are a potent combination as the week begins. Let them work in tandem, and watch your love life grow! It can continue to expand in all sorts of new, improved ways in the days around Wednesday, too -- just try going out of your way to create positive energy, to choose a positive path. Mutually beneficial loveliness is at your fingertips, so reach out! What's your romantic challenge this weekend? Assert yourself. Stand up for your hopes and dreams. Only you can make them come true.

October
You could begin this autumnal month feeling a little bit overwhelmed. Don't fret, if that's the case. After all, the transition from one season to another is always a major event, and as the leaves turn color and the days grow shorter and cooler, you should give yourself plenty of space to adjust. Sleep a little more on the 1st, and eat well and exercise regularly all month long. That way you'll be able to enjoy this changing of the seasons to its utmost. By the 3rd, you're already feeling more energetic, and all of this vim and vigor could easily spill over into romance. On the 8th, it's time to take a long, hard, critical look at your close relationships. Are they fulfilling? Why or why not? Can they improve? Or have they gone as far as they can? Once you have posed these questions, go out to a pumpkin patch and pick a few bright orange squash selections to take home. On the 12th and 13th, be cautious with any new involvements. By the 18th, your career gets a boost from someone who is a big fan of yours. On the 22nd, enjoy the day -- it should be pretty close to perfect. On the 28th, if you feel overwhelmed again, cancel your plans and take a nap. End the month, on the 31st, with a party -- but don't eat too much candy!

On the 1st, you might feel just too darned busy to think too much about romance. Don't worry about it -- just take care of the things you need to do. When you've caught up on your sleep and channeled some of your uneasy feelings into creative projects, romance will wander your way. This could take a little while, or it could happen as soon as the 2nd or 3rd. Either way, accept whatever comes and stay grounded. On the 8th, a couple of old relationship issues could come up. Rather than pushing away emotional discomfort, do your best to let it in and let it be. From there, you can begin to try to understand it. On the 12th and 13th, make sure you have time to yourself. You need peace and quiet to reflect on what's going on, especially if there are any romantic troubles. On the 18th, go to a yoga class or do some breath work at home. It will loosen up your emotions. On the 23rd, spend the day in the most loving way possible. On the 28th, give yourself extra space, even if you think you don't need it. If you take it, you can go back to being with someone else with more emotional integrity afterward. On the 31st, end the month with a look at what's fantasy and what's reality when it comes to your romance.